There seem to be a recurring theme lately with those looking for a new romantic partner or seeking to improve their current love relationship. In my spiritual work, a common question I often hear is “How do I find someone who is awake or waking up spiritually who will understand my beliefs?” or “How do I get my partner more interested in the spiritual aspects of life?”
So many people are feeling the shift in energy, they want to share their lives with others who are awakening and feeling the good vibrations. They are becoming very aware of negative emotions and people around them and they want to break free! Finding themselves in a spiritual dilemma because their life partners are not responsive or appreciative of their newly found spiritual lifestyles. Others have been living for years with a partner who wants no part of any spiritual or religious practices or beliefs and they’ve gotten used to co-existing this way. They’ve accepted the situation as it is.
There are many lightworkers out there who wish to end their current relationships to find their true “soul mate” to live out the rest of their days together in spiritual bliss. I see this happening more and more lately with people feeling dissatisfied, saying that their mate is “asleep” and/or indifferent and without compassion. Many times this can be attributed to fear and stress in these uncertain times and “waking them up” might even be easier than commonly thought. There is hope even though it may seem otherwise…
It’s obvious that great and significant changes are happening in the World. We are experiencing things at a much faster rate than ever. There is great joy in the spiritual awakenings and great fear and uncertainty in World events. If we understand ourselves and our life purposes a little better, it can be easier to cope and to share our knowledge without insisting it be practiced before someone else is ready.

                           

It all comes down to choices. Can you co-exist with someone who does not practice your spiritual beliefs? Are they accepting of you and do they encourage your practices and activities? Are they negative and draining and critical of you and of life in general? Do you feel tired and overwhelmed around someone you used to love dearly?
We have to make choices in how we want to live and exist. If there is great respect and love in the relationship, chances are that disagreements can be settled as rational beings. If one partner has many emotional issues or is extreme in their behavior (addictions, etc.) then they are choosing to avoid solving issues in the relationship and in their lives. It is very difficult for a spiritually ascending soul to be in such negative energy.
Every one of us is unique and the dynamics in each of our romantic relationships is too vast to make a clear cut decision on how to handle a spiritual divide. Each soul awakens on their own way and their own time. A spark here and an experience there and it can happen in an instant or over several years time. With patience and time, a relationship can thrive where once it was very dull.
How great it is when two like-minded souls find each other and grow together! A conscious choice to live spiritually. to have compassion for each other and for everyone in the World. To share your gifts with love and service to others, and to take care of yourselves and your environment.
As it should be for everyone else, Lightworkers in love are multiplied by millions. What a place this Earth would be!